Keeping Annie Alive



Despite being one of seven half-siblings, I am an only child. My family tree is unique. My father was an only child, despite being one of ten brothers–the rest being halves and steps. Who then cares about our pedigree? I do and one day one of the offspring of those half siblings may care. That possibility, however, is not what makes me dig to understand my ancestors. Curiosity and challenge keep me poking into histories and census records. Just how did I get to be who I am and what parts of this endless family puzzle can I fit into place?

Here’s one part. One hundred years ago, nice round number, all eight of my great grandparents were living in Rhode Island, in the northwest corner of Little Rhody. The atmosphere, for them, was one of hard work and modest gains. They were mill workers, farmers, clerks, housewives, horse handlers. Today I’m taking my great grandmother out for the afternoon. No, she’s not a zombie and I have no clue about her appearance or her behavior. I do know that she saw her father shot dead in the street when she was six, her mother’s remarriage and her own subsequent work, along with five of her siblings, in a dreary cotton mill in Georgiaville, a village in Smithfield RI. By the time Annie was fourteen she was working and apparently did so until she married eight years later. She saw her only daughter married and divorced (a heartbreak probably for an Irish Catholic mother at the turn of the 19th century) and her only son dead from TB at the age of twenty-six, leaving a widow and toddler son. The widow returned to her own family and I find little evidence that Annie had a chance to enjoy her grandchild, my father.

So, today, I’m taking Annie and her story to a party at Pomegranate Place, a gorgeous place where women gather in Denver. We will share stories about women we admire, and without ever having met her, I admire Annie J Reynolds Hill. She endured tragedy and hardship. She outlived her husband by seven years, apparently living independently until her own death at the age of 67. So here’s to Annie. The least I can do is keep her memory alive.

5 comments on “Keeping Annie Alive

  1. Diane says:

    Thanks for sharing Annie with us. She deserves to be remembered.


  2. I recall that we had once intended to write about grandmothers, and this comes in part from that discussion many months ago in our writing group. Thanks for reading and commenting. See you Monday?


  3. Frank Gregg says:

    As you know, I have a similar story, as I am an only child and have 26 brothers and sisters. I was fortunate to have met my grandmother on my mothers’ side. My other grandmother was deceased long before I was born. It’s a blessing to have that much knowledge about your family.


  4. I think you take the prize for this family structure! I can only imagine what your family tree would look like if you mapped it out.


  5. Toi McDaniel says:

    Wow! What a family’s story! Glad you got a chance to know and keep it alive. 🙂


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